Rules of Play


Ladies Dress to impress. Smart, Sexy, Sassy..Glam it up! Guys Dapper is best but otherwise dress to impress our ladies.

Ladies Sexy lingerie, wraps, bodysuits, play costume, robe, towel, guys boxers, shorts, towel, No trainers, tracksuits, sportswear, hoodies, caps or scruffy workwear

Accepted ID

We require ID from all guests to the club and those wishing to gain membership as part of our licence agreements. If you don’t have the correct ID, you won’t gain admission; it’s just not worth our licence. The gold standard ID is a photo driving licence with your name and current address on it. If you have this, then you will gain entry with this alone.

If you do not hold an up to date driving licence, then a passport AND utility bill will suffice. If you only have utility bills by email, then this is acceptable, just bring them up on your phone. We will also accept council tax bills and bank statements as proof of address. Passports alone are not acceptable as they do not have your address on them.

We DO accept ID which is photographed on your phone as we understand that some people do not wish to carry passports on them. Just remember to switch your phones off once you have gained entry to the club.


We have a fully licensed bar selling a wide range of alcohol.

Please drink in moderation. **We ask that you do not bring any soft drinks into the club or your own pre-mixed drinks** into our club.

Bar staff reserve the right to refuse alcohol if they feel you have consumed too much alcohol. We sell soft drinks/mixers and tea/coffee. We use plastic glasses (for safety reasons). See our bar prices

**Zero Tolerance Drug Policy**

Whether intoxicated or under the influence…we have the right to refuse entry to anybody who we feel falls into either category. We have the right to question anybody within the club who we feel may have taken drugs on the premises, brought drugs onto our premises, facilitated someone else to take drugs on our premises. If we believe someone has taken drugs and/or has brought drugs onto our premises, we will ask that person to come to reception, escorted by a member of staff along with their bag (s). We will ask the person if we may perform a bag search and may ask for any pockets to be emptied out if we deem it necessary. If the person refuses a bag search, we have the right to call the police who have the authority to search the bag without permission.

We absolutely DO NOT TOLERATE illegal drug use of any kind at Shhh Newcastle and we take a very firm view of such activities for the greater good of our entire membership. Please be mindful of these procedures if you participate in recreational drug-taking and PLEASE DO NOT TAKE ANY CHANCES as we WILL follow this procedure.

Mobile Phones/Cameras

The use of mobile phones is prohibited anywhere in the club. If you need to check your phone/take a call in an emergency, then bring your phone to reception and do so in the company of the desk manager.

We do not allow people to carry phones in pockets, bags for them to be checked intermittently. If you are worried about a possible problem at home, i.e. babysitting issues, then you may leave your phone at reception and we can look out for a given name flashing up on the phone; we will then come and find you. But this is only in an emergency; we are not a secondary babysitting service.

Cameras are not allowed in the club on any events apart from official photography events. Anyone caught taking photographs in the public areas in the club will be asked to delete any photographs in the company of the management and asked to leave immediately.

We have a zero tolerance policy on the use of mobile phones, so please put them in your locker, forget about them and enjoy your night.


The club has good quality lockers on the first floor. Members are issued with a locker key on arrival and your locker number is also your tab number for the bar.


We recommend members bring their own towels. However we can supply you with a towel at the reception free of charge; 2nd and subsequent towels will incur a £1.00 hire charge each, to cover additional laundry costs.

Safe Sex

We actively promote safe sex amongst all members and promote the use of condoms by offering free condoms (inc king size and latex free) and lube which can be found at the bar and reception. We also have a small amount of Dams which need to be requested at reception.

Lost Property

We could literally fill every room in our club with lost property!! You wouldn’t believe some of the stuff that people leave!! We couldn’t possibly keep items indefinitely and therefore due to the volume of items, we have a policy for lost property.

If you think you have left something behind, you have 3 days to contact us to see if we have found your missing item. If we have it, you have another 7 days to arrange to pick up. We won’t send items as we wouldn’t be out of the post office! So please ensure you have all of your valuables before you leave, otherwise, you have a short window to arrange to pick up. The items are then thrown away after the 7 days.

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85-89 Blandford St
Newcastle Upon Tyne

Telephone: 0191 447 2650


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